Thursday, 13 March 2014

Sharing with my daugther

I always wanted to become a nice, cool dad and a dad with time to spend with my daugther. I remember when I was Little kid and I didn´t understand why my dad wasn´t abble to spend lot of time with me and my sister even though he has been a great dad. He always had just sundays off because of work. So was then when I decided that the day I become a Dad, I was going to spend a lot of time with my kid even during the week and that mindset was the reason why today I have an awesome realtionship with my daugther
She just turned 10 last week, and I promised to her that I definitively will come to her birthday (I was in another country).
Now I am back here with her and we had such a nice time lately, just yesterday we went to play some frisbiee at the beach here at the front (we planned that the day before), so that is important dads, if you made a plan with your kids, make it happens.
And something really good happened when we were going to the beach we saw a guy cleanning the beach, he was collecting rubbish, so I ask my daugther that may be we could help him for a Little bit before the frisbiee game and then we aproched him, we talked to him and we start helping .
After that we play frisbiee (I taugh her how to play when we lived in Australia), now she is really good and she like it. So then we finish with a nice swimm in the ocean.
I reckon that if we let it out that Little kid is inside of us we probably are going to enjoy the time with the kids so they will see that we really are having fun and they will wanted to spend time with us more frecuently. Also as a mentors we have to use Little situations to créate a sense of care for other people or for the planet in our kids before thinking in ourselves.

The play with my daugther yesterday was so much better after we helped that guy (who wasn´t even from this country). So there is always someone who cares so I want my and my daugther care for others too and for the planet.

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